• 25 Mar 2009 /  PATHS

    This is my suggestion for combining PATHS modules to deal with financial issues:

    Financial Peace & Prosperity
    Trauma-free
    Deserving

    Depending on your particular issues you could add a career specific module or Inspired Luck and Good Fortune or even Ho’oponopono Healing if there is family or cultural stuff involved. Just Relax can be good as well, if your anxiety is high or Mood Elevation, if depression is a problem.

    Most people who are coming to me for sessions lately want to focus on money issues. Obviously we are dealing with survival fears on a collective level, and probably, our stuff is coming up in response to more people getting into the ideas around the law of attraction.

    Wherever there is fear of survival, there is unresolved trauma. There’s also usually a loop that stops you from deconstructing the fear: your fear vibration around money causes you to keep creating circumstances that reinforce it. It’s hard to get into the zone where you can switch the worry off yet you need to do that in order to change lanes. Most people with money fear have a hard time finding the thoughts that will help them stop worrying. (Which is why Abraham-Hicks suggests just stop thinking about it, so you stop activating that vibration.)

    The Trauma-free module can help you internalize the feeling that ‘the need to stress about survival is over’. The Deserving module can help you resolve issues around money, that aren’t strictly about money – ie associations with lovability, belonging, power, loyalty etc. Financial Peace and Prosperity can help you in your direct dealings with money, i.e. helping you be financially responsible.

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  • 08 Mar 2009 /  Amy thoughts, children

    Today I was talking to a client who’s son I’ve also worked with, and she told me this great story. I wanted to share it because I feel it represents where parenting is going, and can go. She gave me permission to tell it.

    Her son tends to have emotional issues about his birthday and Christmas. She’d said to him he should think about what he wanted to do for his upcoming birthday, so that it would be a happy day for him. He came back later, very emotional and she suggested they do some EFT about it. They worked for a half hour and shhe said that worked really well. She also said to him at some point, “I know you are a very empathic person, and I think sometimes you can pick up other people’s feelings about things. So it’s easy for you to sometimes carry an issue that might be mine or your father’s.” Later he came back and said he wanted her to work that afternoon with his dad to clear the father’s issues about his own birthday!

    I thought this was so great — that she was able to help him emotionally using these tools, that it could be relatively easy, and that he could act on what he knew…this was at least in part coming from his parent’s issues, and he didn’t want to carry what wasn’t his. Now who would you be if your parents could have been this conscious, and as a child, you were given permission to stay in touch with your emotional and spiritual process?

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